salary negotiation

4 (almost devious) rapport-building secrets to transform your negotiations


Negotiations aren’t just about offers and counter-offers. The state of your connection with your counterpart can make all the difference to how things turn out. That’s why rapport building is critical. It helps to create a collaborative dynamic that’s more conducive to achieving high value outcomes. But how do you build rapport effectively? Here are […]

How to magically frame your requests to get what you want


It may seem hard to believe, but the way you phrase your requests can be a game-changer in negotiation. And there’s a huge amount of research to back this up: people, it seems, respond differently to messages simply based on how they’re framed (Tversky & Kahneman, 1981). For example, a 2011 study by Grant and […]

Should you make the first offer in a negotiation?


In our last post, we explored how to make negotiation offers that result in higher value outcomes. But we didn’t discuss the vexed, long-debated question of who should make the first offer in a negotiation. Let’s explore it. Drop anchor Question: Did Gandhi die before or after 140 years old? If you said ‘before’, you’re […]